
We had to get up so early in order to catch our train to Bethel! We took
the Metro to Saint Lazare station and purchased our train tickets easily
enough. On the train we tried to catch up as much as we could on our journal
writing. The brother from Bethel we had spoken to over the phone told us
that when we arrived in Val de Reuil we had to switch to the red bus which
would take us to Louvier. He never told us which bus stop we should get
off at. So, figuring that it was self explanatory and that we would most
likely see the buildings and a sign from the bus windows we got on the red
bus and, unworried, settled down to watch for it. The scenery out the bus
window as we drove through Normandy towards Louvier was very pretty. We
were soon in the heart of town and the bus was weaving its way through the
narrow streets. Louvier appeared to be at one time a quaint little village
that had grown over the years and was now a bustling town. There were now
too many cars for the narrow roads and our bus was one of the many vehicles
that were careening through the narrow streets. At one particularly tight
spot our bus sideswiped a parked car and broke off the driver side mirror.
But the bus driver very nicely stopped and spoke to the young woman who
owned the car and I assume made arrangements to have it fixed and we continued
on our way.
I had been getting anxious as I looked out the
bus windows, searching for a sign that said "Temoins de Jehovah"
and had not yet spotted anything. I decided to ask the bus driver where
I could find the Jehovah’s Witnesses. I walked to the front of the bus and
as it was lurching through the narrow streets I asked him. His answer was
very difficult to understand but I thought he sounded dismayed and indicated
we should have gotten off the bus already. He began to gesture and look
around at me as he spoke and I prayed he would keep his eyes on the road.
We had already gotten in one accident this morning. We didn’t need another.
Then I really began to panic when the bus stopped, the driver said something,
everyone got off and the bus driver got out of the bus. Apparently this
was the end of the line and he was to wait for his time to start the route
over again.
Should we get of the bus and walk back to find
it? We started to get off the bus but the bus driver suddenly got excited
and began telling us something very loudly and rapidly. Up to this point
I had been very proud of my comprehension of the French language. I may
not have been able to give a word for word translation of all that was being
spoken but I thought I was able to understand the gist of what people were
trying to communicate with us rather well. But this man’s French was entirely
beyond me. Perhaps he spoke too quickly. Perhaps he had a heavy accent.
Maybe it was his complete lack of useful gestures or body language. But
try as I might I could not understand this man. I began to use exaggerated
descriptive gestures to try to discern what we should do. He had flustered
us so badly that we had completely forgotten about using our phrasebooks
to try to communicate in French. So I asked him in very slow English which
he obviously didn’t understand a word of, "Should…we…stay…on…the…bus?" And
using both my arms gestured down toward the bus which we were still standing
in. He rattled something off that was beyond comprehension. "Or…should…we…get…off…the…bus?"
I asked as I pointed to Jayné and myself and gestured a sweeping movement
through the door of the bus. He said something again. Neither reply gave
me any indication of which was the correct move for us. In fact, he went
on to speak sentence after sentence to us. At the time I thought he may
have been imparting some useful information that we were clearly missing
out on. But in retrospect he was most likely saying "Why me? Why today?
I come to work minding my own business. I just want to drive my bus and
go home! But first I bust some lady’s car mirror and now I’m stuck babysitting
these lost tourists! Should I be expected to speak English? I’m just a bus
driver in a small town. It’s not like I’m a tour guide in Paris or anything!"
etc. etc.
A young Arab looking woman wearing a scarf over
her head was waiting to board the bus and at last in desperation the bus
driver called her over and asked her if she knew English. She looked embarrassed
and kind of shrugged but she did know a very little English. She was able
to at last determine from the bus driver with certainty that we should stay
on the bus. Eventually the driver got back on the bus along with the young
woman and a few others and we pulled back out onto the roads once again.
Meanwhile, Jayné had discovered a very useful phrase in the phrasebook:
"Please tell me when to get off." We told this to the driver in French and
alas, he understood! He assured us yes "oui, oui." I’m sure he was
only too eager to get us off his bus and out of his life for good.
We began heading back in the direction we had
come and soon were back at a stop that we had passed earlier and the driver
told us to get off here. He pointed to a large 3 story building just off
the road and said "Temoins de Jehovah". We thanked him profusely
and got off the bus. I had noticed this building when we had passed it earlier
and thought it looked suspiciously like a Jehovah’s Witness branch building
but as it had no such sign to indicate I had dismissed it. A small parking
lot separated the building from the road and we could see the main entrance
but it was entirely fenced and gated. With no way to access the main entrance
and no bell to ring we began to circle behind the building looking for another
entrance. There were a few more doors behind and as we were wandering around
contemplating if we should try any to see if they were locked we heard a
whistle. An older brother dressed in work clothes was approaching us.

At first we thought he was just whistling to
himself as he worked but we soon realized he was trying to get our attention.
He spoke as he approached us and we explained to him that we did not speak
French. "Parlez vous Anglais?" We asked. "Non." He did not
speak a word of English. But he led us inside the building and found a sister
who spoke English. He told her how he had found us wandering around outside.
We explained to her that we were here for the 10 am tour (It was now about
10:15) but we had gotten lost. It turns out that we were at the shipping
facility and the main offices were actually about a mile away. She found
a brother who could drive us over there in his car, we jumped in and he
sped down the narrow road. We soon arrived at the main entrance to the office
complex. He pointed out the front door to us, we piled out of the car and
he sped off again without speaking more than a sentence to us (in French).
At last we were here! Walking in the lobby was
like coming home. It was so comfortable and familiar. The sister behind
the receptionist counter greeted us with a friendly "Bonjour!" And when
we told her in English that we were here for the 10 am tour, but had gotten
lost she replied in our native tongue "You must be Sister McCormick and
Sister Franck." As she pulled from beneath her daily planner our letters
that we had sent! I don’t know why this affected me so much but it did.
I almost got choked up. Here we were halfway across the world and she had
in her hand the very letter that I had sent from home. They knew us by name
and were warmly welcoming us as sisters. She told us to make our selves
comfortable in the lobby while she called for our first tour guide. We sat
down and she offered us coffee or juice and snacks while we waited. We let
her bring us some juice and while we waited for our guide she explained
to us that there was a different bus that came directly to the office. The
blue one. Or maybe the red one came by there only on certain days and it
happened to be the wrong day. I’m not sure. In any case they were very patient
and understanding with us.
Our guide, Gentian Grasset, arrived and we began
our tour. She spoke excellent English and she worked in the translation
department. She gave us the tour of the recording studio, writing and translation
departments. This was the most fascinating part of our tour to me. Of course
everything in Jehovah’s organization is consistent throughout the world.
The printing and shipping of literature, the building of kingdom halls and
assembly halls, the legal departments etc. is all familiar to us. But Gentian
explained to me that every article for each Watchtower and Awake magazine
and every new publication is first written in English. This is true even
if the article was written by a brother at one of the branch offices throughout
the world. Then the article is sent to the Governing Body for proofreading
before receiving final approval to print it. Then it is sent to the branches
for translation. So if a brother from the French writing department was
to submit an article for publication he must write it in English, even though
it would be translated into French later. She showed us the research libraries,
her office and the programs she uses to aid in translation.
After touring these departments we watched a
short film about Bethel, explored the displays in the lobby and met our
next guide who gave us the tour of the legal departments and residence buildings.
His English was good but he was very nervous and read the information from
his notes. At lunch time he passed us over to Adrien and Estella Wlodarczyk,
a married couple whom we were to sit with at lunch and spend the lunch time
with. Estella, like Gentian, also worked in the translation department.
It became clear to me now that we were to be supervised at all times. I
would have liked to wander the grounds a little and I’m sure we could have
with one of our guides but there ended up being no time for that. I had
never had lunch with the Bethel family before although Jayne’ had once at
Brooklyn Bethel. I was nervous and excited at the same time. The others
at our table were brothers from Belgium who were attending the Ministerial
Training School here. Adrien was our table head and after prayer he began
passing the dishes that were brought to us by the waiters, some he passed
clockwise and some counterclockwise. I was ravenous but was afraid to take
too much food onto my plate. There were a lot of brothers at our table and
the food had to go all the way around! Along with the bread and butter that
were already on the table we were surprised to find a carafe of wine. Adrien
told us that only three Bethel branches in the world serve wine at the table.
(The other two were Portugal and Italy.)

Part way into the meal I realized that I had
forgotten my mini photo album with pictures of home in my backpack in the
lobby. I was just about to jump up to run and get it so I could show it
to them when Estella kindly stopped me. She said they customarily stayed
seated until the second prayer, then you were free to get up from the table
or stay and finish eating if you wished. I was so embarrassed! I almost
committed a grave faux pas! After the second prayer I did go get
it and showed it to Gentian and her husband Phillipe who I saw on the way
back to our table. The older brother who had found us wandering around the
buildings that morning came around to glean cheese from our table. He proceeded
to tell Adrien and Estella and anyone else within earshot of how he found
us and came to our rescue this morning. He was obviously greatly amused
by the story.
After we were done eating Adrien and Estella
invited us up to their room for tea and to visit until the end of the lunch
break. I had read in my Culture Shock! book that the French people are not
quick to invite you into their homes. Of course I expected the brothers
to be more open than that and so was not at first surprised. But I realized
later that this was a very special invitation. As we sat in their room talking
and drinking tea we learned that they had come to the United States for
a vacation. They had been to California, touring San Francisco and Yosemite
National Park and driven through parts of Nevada and Utah. They said "We
think the brothers in the United States are very loving and friendly. The
French brothers are not as hospitable as the Americans. We are trying to
work on being more open and showing more hospitality."
When lunch was over we jumped into the shuttle
van to take us back to the shipping facilities where we had first got off
the bus. We were now to tour the laundry, construction and shipping departments.
Our guide for the afternoon was named David. We had just begun our tour
when he got a call and was told we would be joined by some more Americans
who had just arrived. He left us alone!!! while he went downstairs to find
them. (I don’t know if that was technically allowed) We visited with some
sisters folding laundry while we waited. We were joined by two sisters from
California and a French brother.

When we exited the shipping building to walk
to the laundry and offices we were approached by none other than the old
brother who had found us near that very spot this morning. He had to tell
his story of how he found us there again to David. He seemed greatly amused
that although he didn’t speak any English and we didn’t speak French that
he was able to help us. Jayne wanted a photo but he protested and so she
let him off easy. The others went on to tour what we had already that morning
while Jayne and I went back up to David’s office. He promised to look up
Kingdom Hall addresses and meeting times for the remaining cities we would
be visiting for us. While he looked on the computer we had an interesting
conversation about beer. We told him we were hoping to taste some good beer
in Alsace. He had spent some time living and working at the London Bethel
and told us how he never drank beer before then, but was initiated quite
quickly by his department head when they went out for a drink after work
and his Bethel boss ordered two pints for each of them. (In France that
would be considered gluttonous.)
He printed off the Kingdom Hall information
for us and then insisted on escorting us to the bus stop. We knew where
it was. It was the stop that the driver had let us off that morning and
we could even see it from David’s office window. But by now I’m sure the
story of our being lost and wandering around had spread, not just to those
we had told and not just those that we had overheard the old brother tell,
but to many more he had told throughout the day. In any case, they apparently
didn’t want to take any chances of us getting lost again. David escorted
us to the bus stop and told us which bus to get on. We said our goodbyes
and he went back inside. It was a great relief to see when the bus arrived
that it was a different driver than we had in the morning!
On our train ride back to Paris we decided that
rather than go back to our room to change we would go directly to a part
of town we had not yet explored and find a restaurant to eat dinner. We
randomly chose a Metro station in the Left Bank, went straight from our
train to the Metro and navigated our way to the station we had chosen. We
were pleasantly surprised when we came up the stairs from the Metro to street
level that we were in a brightly lit neighborhood where the streets were
lined with fancy boutiques and nice looking restaurants. Now the only problem
was to find a restaurant that was affordable! We quickly settled on one
called La Parisienne that was in our price range. It was smoky inside
as all French restaurants are and when we told our waiter non fumer
he led us to the back and up a small flight of 4 or 5 stairs to a second
level where there were 3 or 4 tables. There were no people seated near us
but the smoke from below drifted up to our section nonetheless. Do they
not understand that smoke rises? At least we were in a warm room out of
the cold.
We decided quickly what we wanted to order since
we were ravenous. I didn’t eat much at the Bethel lunch and it was long
gone from my stomach by now. I opted for the salmon with haricort verts.
Although we made quick decisions as to our food we had a harder time with
the wine. We had no trouble deciding that we indeed wanted to order wine.
It was just the amount of wine that we could not decide. There were many
factors to consider. We wanted to each have a glass or two, the French wine
glasses are small yet we did not want to appear gluttonous yet we wanted
to enjoy our wine. And since many restaurants sell wine by the carafe measured
in centiliters this was our greatest dilemma. I really have no idea how
big a centiliter is. I can approximate the size of a liter. Okay, that’s
half the size of a two liter soda bottle. So I think a centiliter would
be one one hundreths of a liter. Okay, so now I divide that bottle into
100 parts. If the carafe was 75 centiliters then how much wine would that
be? It was just too much math to figure out when you already have low blood
sugar so we enlisted the help of our waiter. He was able to tell us approximately
how many glasses of wine we would get out of each different size of carafe.
When we got our wine it ended up being more glasses than he had told us
it would be. We were fine with that. More is better, right? At least in
America it is. But this is France and they don’t feel that way here. So
I thought until my food arrived. I think the cook had the "more is better"
philosophy also because on my plate was the hugest pile of green beans I
have ever seen! And I ate them all.
Back out on the streets with full stomachs we
decided to explore a little. It had been cold all day but it seemed to get
colder as the day went on. Waiting for the bus to arrive when we left Bethel
was torture and we were hardly warmer at the train station waiting for our
train. And now we were on the streets of Paris, it was freezing and all
the shops were closed. The wind blew and sucked away any bit of warmth that
our bodies could generate. We still had our skirts on and I had worn my
lightest sweater under my coat this day. I was freezing! There really was
nothing for us to see but window shop and it was too cold for that. We rounded
a corner and came across a huge grating in the ground that was about 40
feet square. Looking down we could see some sort of subterranean tunnel
below, probably some service access to the train tunnels. Air was blowing
out through this grating and at certain points it was blowing so strong
that it would blow your skirt up. We paused for Marilyn Monroe photos. (At
least the air coming out the grating was warm!)

We were both tired and ready to go back to our
room but I wanted Jayné to see the Eiffel tower from a distance. We had
stood right beneath it before but you cannot get the full effect or take
photos that include the entire tower unless you are back from it a little.
So we got back on the Metro and came out at the end of the Champ de Mars.
We lingered, taking photos of each other. There were a few other tourists
around doing the same. A greasy American offered to take our photo together.
I was worried that it was just a ploy to steal my camera. I knew as soon
as I placed it in his hands he would run off. I calculated whether or not
I could take him down. But I noticed he had a large SLR of his own around
his neck and concluded that he was a harmless camera geek so I handed him
my camera and Jayné and I posed. In the first photo he made sure to include
our feet but cut off the top of the Eiffel tower. I had him take another,
assuring him it was okay to cut off the feet. The next photo was extremely
blurry and quite a bit crooked. I asked if he could do another. This one
was only slightly less blurry and slightly less crooked. He offered to take
another. I just wanted to get my camera away from him and his greasy face
but he insisted on taking another. I let him. I don’t really believe it
was any better than the rest but I assured him in animated terms that it
was beautiful and I couldn’t ask for a nicer photo, got my camera out of
his greasy hands and we left, never to see him again. Well, I never saw
him again. Jayné tells me she spotted him two days later at Versailles!