Hardly. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 Is it a similar power to the conjunction? My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. I didn't eroticize his everyday actions. Since both Eros and Lilith are isolated energies buried deep in the unconcious, the erotic transformation which takes place upon their meeting is deep with raw and intuitive spiritual potency. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. The planets, asteroids, and stars do not cause only one particular outcome. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . One other thing that might be helpful with this asteroid pairing, and one that I think is quite meaningful. tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. Ami, hello. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! Are they married, Lo. Who is whom? In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! This is a general rule, my Friend. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. Hmm I wasnt abused as a child in any way. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. My main point is reflection. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. Thanks for your posts Ami. Set his time to 12 midnight but TELL me, so I know before I look! (double-whammy..) I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. The Nessus is usually the abuser but in this case, it was the son. That never ceases to amaze me, either! Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. The conjunction is excact. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. If you know, let me know! his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. My Pluto opposite his Moon. Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT It may be the abuse takes place in the home or within the family. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. It seems like the man of your childhood dreams walked out of the ether into your life like the larger than life heroes on the movie screens. the reason this is the case is that Mars is sexual drive( all drives actually). Sorry if its too much info xx, Ps, sorry! Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. I haven't been able to find much discussion about this connection and I'm really interested in hearing stories from other people who've experienced it. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! . I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. The chart is complex and one has to look at the entire chart to draw very global conclusions. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. Also, It doesnt suit me. ami, what would nessus trine dejanira in synastry indicate. And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. It is not pretty at all. Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. Venus mars aspects Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Maybe also Mars/Uranus? Uranus/Mars in synastry can be kinky. It would have ruined my relationship with my mother because I would have feared her even though she showed no signs of abuse. I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. I think you will have the urge to abuse. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. Thank you for your reply. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. Thanks you, Jos. Have you tried? Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. As such, I would be careful and watchful. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. Where did you get these theories from? Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Youll always want to look at the chart as a whole, read everything as a metaphors, and use your intuition. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. I have seen it in a few people, only. Sorry, lol. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! Hardly. It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. 3. Eros contacts in synastry have been touted as creating attraction that cannot be denied. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. Thank you Ariel! How would it play out if my boyfriends Dejanira is conjunct my venus/juno conjunction but my venus/juno is part of a grand trine with my midheaven and also my moon/Bella/mars/pluto conjunction? This is not dark sexual, per se. Thats not the truth. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? Grace dear I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. What does that mean? His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. I hear your concern. There are some other great planet aspects but I am very curious about the ones I listed. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. That is the nature of the DSC. Does this mean anything? In my opinion, it will play out. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. It would simply be different. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. I hope I can do this in my articles. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. Also, how does moon conjunct pluto in synastry differ to moon conjunct pluto in composite. Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. under what theme of the forum? That is why it feels so life and death. But interested to see how things unfold. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. He was considered irresistible. The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Eros: Synastry Aspects . Try to post the charts so see a visual! Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. How will these aspects play out? Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. I am having a hard time following your questions, Julia. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. 8. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. What does that mean? Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. Thank you Ivs. You interpret things based off of your own view. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Im pluto and he is the moon. Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. Eros thrills, scares and creates intense bonds. To me, you may really struggle with falling into the victim role and would have to keep pulling yourself up over and over until you get real traction which could take some time, oh im sorry. xx. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. I am worried about being the abuser here. Am I right? That can be justified through basic psychology, I think. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. Powerful, you say? This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. (both in Capricorn) This totally depends on someone as a person. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. Those interpretations CAN happen, but they are not destined to. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. Thats your opinion. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. Will be keeping my wits about me. So the theory doesnt check out. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. Im not accepting you scaring people into running from possible happy, fulfilling relationships over one aspect that none of us even know how it can manifest in millions of ways. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. My Nessus square his Venus Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. I am one person with one persons experience, of course. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! It is very, very powerful. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. Thanks :), Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. Yes, these asteroids have to be in a very close conjunction with other planets ( or a very close square) to be dangerous. I am so intrigued!!! Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Hey there! This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! Further, there is such a thing such as free will. These are too many questions for text. The chart never lies, my Friend. All of astrology is neutral. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Yes, I was thinking about this. I dont mean to, but I think I find issues/hurts of my friends and partners and end up trying to mother them if thats what you meant. Your email address will not be published. Would you liken moon/pluto dynamics to an 8th house moon overlay? Thank you for this information! It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Is it relevant? Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. Ami is an insightful astrology. What would that mean? 1) Planetary house overlays (1, 5, 7, 8, 9 = most important) 2) Planetary aspects. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. A conjunction is the strongest, but most aspects indicate some type of marriage. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. 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